Thursday, May 31, 2007

plants: love/hate

when i moved out of my father's house, he gave me a couple of plants to take with me. a big hibiscus and another, nameless one. i myself added a lilac and some honeysuckle. i was all ready for a big jungle out on the balcony (and a huge mess trying to find someone to water it when i went on holiday). but things haven't been half as smooth as they used to be.

first, my hibiscus was visited by some tiny white flies, which kept laying eggs so that at the end of the summer, i simply had to cut down the plant to a stump, as no amount of insecticide would help. the plant has now grown back to it near-original size (which is amazing, cos it's quite big!), and now, despite the utmost vigilance, i can see the problem is reappearing. hopefully, i've caught the problem in time, but somehow, i can't imagine i'd actually be that lucky.

in the meantime, the nameless plant, which was also quite big at the beginning of spring, suddenly started wilting away. it took some time before i noticed that some white fungus was attacking it. not only that, but it was spreading to the honeysuckle. back i went to the garden store and i was once again assured that the product i was buying would solve the problem and no, i didn't have to cut down the plant (they'd said that about the hibiscus last year...). half the plant has already died, although it does indeed seem like the situation is stabilising.

and so yesterday, while treating the hibiscus again, i noticed that quite a few of the lilac's leaves had been chewed on. this isn't new, but it originally wasn't much and i couldn't figure out what was doing it, seen as there were no caterpillars or other such bugs around. but yesterday, i found some black flies that seemed quite settled on the leaves. and now i'm really pissed off cos lilacs are my favourite flowers.

the question remains, though: where have i gone wrong? i'm doing nothing that i didn't used to do at my father's place, the plants come into contact with just as many other plants as before (well, fewer actually, which you'd think would reduce the risk), and i'm just at a loss as to what to do next...

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

10 things i did this weekend

- averted a drama by getting my sister on another plane so she could come and see me despite her plane cancellation
- had a conversation with my sister who was having breakfast on my bed while i was trying to emerge (this was very cool indeed)
- caught up with old girlfriends
- had an amazing BBQ (that meat was just divine!)
- went swimming (and bumped into a friend there)
- spent quality time with T. (ie just the two of us)
- had an indoor picnic on the floor in a friend's kitchen due to our original BBQ being rained out
- made new friends
- enjoyed the company of my sister
- saw my best friend one last time before he flew back to Africa (well, two, but the second one was a 15-mn drive to the airport so doesn't really count)

Saturday, May 26, 2007

plane drama!

my sister's plane was supposed to land at 10.45pm. when i checked the flight status at 9pm, it told me the plane would be delayed a good half hour. when i checked at 10, it told me the plane was cancelled. so i sent my sister a message asking her what the new plan was. she told me there was no problem, the plane was just seriously delayed. at 11, i called her to see what was going on, seen as both my teletex and the web were telling me that plane wasn't getting off the ground. they'd just been told the news and they were waiting for info. after a few minutes, though, it was not only confirmed, but they couldn't fly her out before sometime on Sunday...

i was angry and disappointed, although i'm sure not half as much as she was. so i got in touch again, wanting to cheer her up. turned out the airline was willing to pay the price difference if she found another plane. so all i had to do was find her one. thank god for the internet! after half an hour's searching, calling, confirming, etc, she was finally booked on the first available plane out, making her land before noon. not bad when you think that i half an hour ago sent out an email to all her friends telling them she wasn't coming after all! now let's hope she waked up on time, in the hotel room i'm seriously hoping they're paying for...

now going to bed. definitely need sleep after that...

Friday, May 25, 2007

thunderstorm

there was a thunderstorm last night. not here, some way away. but i was sitting on my balcony and the view was gorgeous. the lightning was movie-style. amazing. i was enjoying the view with some Floc (a blend of Armagnac and wine), which made me stay longer than intended, cos despite it being a 17% alcohol, it totally incapacitated me!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

dinners on terraces

the weather's been wonderful these past days. this means we've been able to have dinners outside. it'd been such a long time... so on Monday i had dinner on my terrace with my best friend. it was really nice. and then last night we had a BBQ at his place, with some other friends. again, nice and cosy. that and i love BBQs. it was great and i completely forgot it was a weekday. had trouble getting up this morning... kept thinking it was Saturday, or Sunday. or a holiday.

Sunday, May 20, 2007

coup de theatre!

had been given a ticket to the last general rehearsal of the new Don Pasquale production. had spent the whole day driving and sitting in the sun, so i thought i might have trouble surviving over 2 hours of opera, but no.

the set was amazing, as were the costumes. the third act had just started when the main character, who was supposed to 'fall' on the sofa, fell on the floor. the music then stopped, as did the singing. total silence for about 10 seconds until he said 'sorry'. the curtain dropped and the director came out to tell us that the guy'd been doing out for X-rays, that the choir would be practising what was left of the opera and we were welcome to stay. half the people left but we decided to stay. and were rewarded, because it turned out the main character had decided to continue rehearsing no matter what. i couldn't help hope he'd be ok and wouldn't hurt himself. but as it turned out later, it was apparently all for show. or so said my friend the soprano, who couldn't believe he'd once again put on a show. he was such a prima dona!

Saturday, May 19, 2007

the dress

bought a new dress last week. really nice. wore it the other night. had quite an impact on the guys is all i will say ;)

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

the pope...

apparently said this during his trip to Brasil: 'the Indians were silently waiting to become Christians', referring to the time of the Spanish conquest. does that not sound like some extremist's point of view? i am totally disgusted.

Monday, May 14, 2007

living in the wrong decade

either that or i'm just too much of a romantic. i have real trouble understanding the whole concept of not being able to wait a bit to find out if that person you're attracted to could become your significant other for a while. in a world where we work a lot, two weeks seems a bit short. especially if it's been impossible to find 'alone time' (as opposed to there being 20 other people around, i mean).

whilst i'm not out to find a husband, i still believe in minimal courtship, which i realise is totally outdated. i should have lived ten or twenty years earlier. or i should live elsewhere, say in a small remote village where the choice is smaller and thus things go less fast.

Thursday, May 10, 2007

too slow...

so after a week of agonising, i've finally just found out why things have been so weird. he's found someone else. the girl he came with the other night. apparently, i'm way too slow. apparently, if you can't just take what comes right at the time it comes, you can't get it at all.

the good thing is i can start eating again.

Monday, May 07, 2007

election results

as these were my first presidential elections since my teenage years, i thought it'd be best to share the experience with some friends. and what an experience!

most of the French channels were of course broadcasting all-night shows with intense political debate as to who would win (for those not in the know) and why either candidate had won/lost (for those who have nothing better to do than listen to politicians fighting). we chose to watch the satirical show on Canal+. and god was it funny! between takes of an improvised race throughout Paris for the two puppets (representing the candidates and other influential people) there were interviews with the puppet president (who was trying to stay in power and turned out to be the equivalent of a French superhero - Fantomas), updates on the immigration/emigration situation (ie was Johnny Halliday coming back and was Yannick Noah leaving?), what life would be like with either president and various other hilarious scenes. when we eventually found out who'd won (there is a law in France that forbids official numbers from being released before 8pm, but we'd all heard the results on Swiss tv), we did hear Royal's speech and a little later on Sarkozy's, whilst in-between discussing the various merits of celebrities being around, of other politicians' speeches, etc.

all in all, it was a really great way to get the results.

Sunday, May 06, 2007

messed up again...

invited him to lunch. said this time i'd call if he didn't answer (seen as we missed each other on email last week). i'm pretty sure he's read it, seen as i know he's read another email of mine i sent through another medium. and if he's checked one, he's checked both. so he hasn't replied. and as i just saw him tonight and he didn't say anything, the logical conclusion is that i've once again come up short.

he came with a girlfriend of ours. now technically, it doesn't mean anything and honestly, i don't know when they'd have had time to become a couple, seen as they weren't one on Friday (or rather, certainly didn't act like one - i thought he might be interested in another girl altogether) and he's since been away all weekend. or maybe it's the other girl. or maybe he's just not interested anymore. whatever the reason, i can't stop feeling like i'll never get it right.

Saturday, May 05, 2007

party at T's

it was a potluck dinner on a Friday night. who would have thought it would have gone so wild? didn't get home till 4.30am, so that i'd been up for 22.5 hrs! i had such a good time. loved it.

Friday, May 04, 2007

how did i get roped into this?

it was my first building AGM (or whatever you'd call it) last night. we met with other flat owners and the guy we pay to be in overall charge of our building. after last year's account had gone through without anyone spotting a massive error (i hadn't been able to attend), i'd seriously done my homework and had lots of questions. which i guess explains why, half an hour later when discussing who the board members should be, the woman behind me asked if i wanted to have a go. 'god no!', was my reply. as there were three members already, i couldn't see the point. the chairman then said that a fourth one wouldn't go amiss. as if i hadn't got the point yet, the secretary also started telling me all about it and after 5 minutes of everyone telling me i should do it, well, what could i do?

on a side note, it was really nice to meet more people who live in my building. after more than a year, i think i'd barely met 4-5 real occupants. after the meeting, we got talking about various other things, and we were then invited to share a glass of champagne with the chairman of the board. because of my current water/insurance problem with the company, i'd worked myself up to thinking it was going to be a terrible and exhausting experience but in the end it was quite good.

Thursday, May 03, 2007

the decision

i realised i was once again being an idiot, the other day. the guy IS great. he would be great for me. the rest is so not important. the only problem now is finding out if he's still interested. god i hope he is...

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

what to do?

i really like the guy. he's funny, makes me laugh, very smart, pretty good looking. and not only that. the only problem for me is that he's not even my height. when i wear my flatest shoes and he wears nice shoes (ie with the usual 3-4 cm heel), he's still not even close. and he's so slim. it feels really weird.

honestly, i don't even know if he's still interested, but i can't figure this out. on the one hand, i'm really attracted to him, but on the other one, every time i stand next to him, i feel like a giant. i don't know what to do. when i try to be rational about it, i swing between 'it's not gonna work' and 'he's so nice'. every time i decide on one or the other, i spend the next few hours stressing over it and wondering if i'm not making a mistake. if he could make a move one way or the other, it would help, but he seems just as non-commital as me.

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

giving blood - the problem

as some of you know, i try to give blood somewhat regularly - say three times a year. after last month's debacle (got letter from blood bank to ask me to get tested as i seemed to be anaemic), i thought things were back to fine as the tests were normal. not so.

yesterday i got another letter from the blood bank. seemed a bit much, as i couldn't see what else they'd want with me since i'd sent them said results. they thanked me. and asked me not to give blood more than once a year, as it could really result in me becoming anaemic. typical.

i started giving blood to feel like i was doing my bit, especially as i know they're always in need of blood. as it turned out, i can only give to research, having lived in the UK more than 6 months in a row (might have CGD) and now this. why are they so trying to thwart me?