discussion

D. and i decided to talk it through. clearly, we were not on the same page communication-wise. or time-wise. so we met and discussed it.

before going, i'd been on a roller-coaster: i didn't think this could go on versus i should give him another chance. i couldn't make my mind up. in the end, i decided to keep an open mind and to only make a decision once there and talked to him.

but the minute i got there and saw him, my feelings became crystal clear. this wasn't gonna work. we talked it through and the general feeling i got from him was not promising, so i said what i had to say. he took it extremely well, for someone who said he really wanted to see me more. but then, as the conversation continued, it became very clear we didn't, in fact, have that much in common. for example, he was of the opinion that one shouldn't intervene in a couple's affairs in the case of domestic violence. as far as he was concerned, maybe they liked it that way and it really wasn't a third party's place to say or do anything about it. right. of course.

... i think not.